[cross-lang-lto] Allow the linker to choose the LTO-plugin (which is useful when using LLD)
This PR allows for not specifying an LTO-linker plugin but still let `rustc` invoke the linker with the correct plugin arguments. This is useful when using LLD which does not need the `-plugin` argument. Since LLD is the best linker for this scenario anyway, this change should improve ergonomics quite a bit.