Rollup merge of #68700 - withoutboats:wake-trait, r=withoutboats

Add Wake trait for safe construction of Wakers.

Currently, constructing a waker requires calling the unsafe `Waker::from_raw` API. This API requires the user to manually construct a vtable for the waker themself - which is both cumbersome and very error prone. This API would provide an ergonomic, straightforward and guaranteed memory-safe way of constructing a waker.

It has been our longstanding intention that the `Waker` type essentially function as an `Arc<dyn Wake>`, with a `Wake` trait as defined here. Two considerations prevented the original API from being shipped as simply an `Arc<dyn Wake>`:

- We want to support futures on embedded systems, which may not have an allocator, and in optimized executors for which this API may not be best-suited. Therefore, we have always explicitly supported the maximally-flexible (but also memory-unsafe) `RawWaker` API, and `Waker` has always lived in libcore.
- Because `Waker` lives in libcore and `Arc` lives in liballoc, it has not been feasible to provide a constructor for `Waker` from `Arc<dyn Wake>`.

Therefore, the Wake trait was left out of the initial version of the task waker API.

However, as Rust 1.41, it is possible under the more flexible orphan rules to implement `From<Arc<W>> for Waker where W: Wake` in liballoc. Therefore, we can now define this constructor even though `Waker` lives in libcore.

This PR adds these APIs:

- A `Wake` trait, which contains two methods
    - A required method `wake`, which is called by `Waker::wake`
    - A provided method `wake_by_ref`, which is called by `Waker::wake_by_ref` and which implementors can override if they can optimize this use case.
- An implementation of `From<Arc<W>> for Waker where W: Wake + Send + Sync + 'static`
- A similar implementation of `From<Arc<W>> for RawWaker`.