[NLL] Better move errors
Make a number of changes to improve the quality of NLL cannot move errors.
* Group errors that occur in the same `match` with the same cause.
* Suggest `ref`, `&` or removing `*` to avoid the move.
* Show the place being matched on.
Differences from AST borrowck:
* `&` is suggested over `ref` when matching on a place that can't be moved from.
* Removing `*` is suggested instead of adding `&` when applicable.
* Sub-pattern spans aren't used, this would probably need Spans on Places.
Closes #45699
Closes #46627
Closes #51187
Closes #51189
r? @pnkfelix