[NLL] Rework checking for borrows conflicting with drops
Previously, we would split the drop access into multiple checks for each
field of a struct/tuple/closure and through `Box` dereferences. This
changes this to check if the borrow is accessed by the drop in
`places_conflict`.
We also now handle enums containing `Drop` types.
Closes #53569
r? @nikomatsakis
cc @pnkfelix