Rollup merge of #78126 - shepmaster:aarch64-apple-darwin-valist, r=nagisa

Properly define va_arg and va_list for aarch64-apple-darwin

From [Apple][]:

> Because of these changes, the type `va_list` is an alias for `char*`,
> and not for the struct type in the generic procedure call standard.

With this change `/x.py test --stage 1 src/test/ui/abi/variadic-ffi`
passes.

Fixes #78092

[Apple]: https://developer.apple.com/documentation/xcode/writing_arm64_code_for_apple_platforms