Auto merge of #41791 - Mark-Simulacrum:doc-guidelines, r=frewsxcv
Minor cleanup of UX guidelines.
I think this fixes https://github.com/rust-lang/rust/issues/34808. It covers the [long error code explanations normalization] by linking to the RFC, and cleaning up the list where long diagnostics are defined. While the [error message overhaul] isn't covered directly, I'm not really sure that more than the [existing section] on the error/warning/help messages is warranted; the overhaul linked didn't really specify any new guidelines, primarily just changing the output format.