std: Add timeouts to unix connect/accept

std: Add timeouts to unix connect/accept

This adds support for connecting to a unix socket with a timeout (a named pipe
on windows), and accepting a connection with a timeout. The goal is to bring
unix pipes/named sockets back in line with TCP support for timeouts.

Similarly to the TCP sockets, all methods are marked #[experimental] due to
uncertainty about the type of the timeout argument.

This internally involved a good bit of refactoring to share as much code as
possible between TCP servers and pipe servers, but the core implementation did
not change drastically as part of this commit.

cc #13523