make TinyList more readable and optimize remove(_)

make TinyList more readable and optimize remove(_)

also add benchmarks

Before:

```
test tiny_list::test::bench_insert_empty             ... bench:           1 ns/iter (+/- 0)
test tiny_list::test::bench_insert_one               ... bench:          16 ns/iter (+/- 0)
test tiny_list::test::bench_remove_empty             ... bench:           2 ns/iter (+/- 0)
test tiny_list::test::bench_remove_one               ... bench:           6 ns/iter (+/- 0)
test tiny_list::test::bench_remove_unknown           ... bench:           4 ns/iter (+/- 0)
```

After:

```
test tiny_list::test::bench_insert_empty             ... bench:           1 ns/iter (+/- 0)
test tiny_list::test::bench_insert_one               ... bench:          16 ns/iter (+/- 0)
test tiny_list::test::bench_remove_empty             ... bench:           0 ns/iter (+/- 0)
test tiny_list::test::bench_remove_one               ... bench:           3 ns/iter (+/- 0)
test tiny_list::test::bench_remove_unknown           ... bench:           2 ns/iter (+/- 0)
```