Auto merge of #53147 - ashtneoi:dont-suggest-ref, r=estebank

Auto merge of #53147 - ashtneoi:dont-suggest-ref, r=estebank

For move errors, suggest match ergonomics instead of `ref`

Partially fixes issue #52423. Also makes errors and suggestions more consistent between move-from-place and move-from-value errors.

Limitations:
- Only the first pattern in a match arm can have a "consider removing this borrow operator" suggestion.
- Suggestions don't always compile as-is (see the TODOs in the test for details).

Sorry for the really long test. I wanted to make sure I handled every case I could think of, and it turned out there were a lot of them.

Questions:
- Is there any particular applicability I should set on those suggestions?
- Are the notes about the `Copy` trait excessive?