auto merge of #13584 : rcxdude/rust/cross-syntax-ext, r=alexcrichton

auto merge of #13584 : rcxdude/rust/cross-syntax-ext, r=alexcrichton

This allows the use of syntax extensions when cross-compiling (fixing #12102). It does this by encoding the target triple in the crate metadata and checking it when searching for files. Currently the crate triple must match the host triple when there is a macro_registrar_fn, it must match the target triple when linking, and can match either when only macro_rules! macros are used.

due to carelessness, this is pretty much a duplicate of https://github.com/mozilla/rust/pull/13450.