Rollup merge of #95353 - jyn514:invalid-filter-hard-error, r=Mark-Simulacrum

Rollup merge of #95353 - jyn514:invalid-filter-hard-error, r=Mark-Simulacrum

[bootstrap] Give a hard error when filtering tests for a file that does not exist

A common issue people run into when running compiletest is that filtering for files that don't exist is only a warning and not an error; running the whole test suite instead.
See for example https://rust-lang.zulipchat.com/#narrow/stream/182449-t-compiler.2Fhelp/topic/Question.20about.20compiletest.
This is especially bad when using `--bless`, which will modify all `.stderr` files.

Change bootstrap to require valid filters instead of discarding invalid filters and continuing.

Before:

```
Warning: Skipping "/home/jnelson/rust-lang/rust/src/test/rustdoc-ui/intra-doc/feature-gate-intra-doc-pointers.r": not a regular file or directory
Check compiletest suite=rustdoc-ui mode=ui (x86_64-unknown-linux-gnu(x86_64-unknown-linux-gnu) -> x86_64-unknown-linux-gnu(x86_64-unknown-linux-gnu))

running 163 tests
iiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii.......................... 100/163
...............................................................
test result: ok. 89 passed; 0 failed; 74 ignored; 0 measured; 0 filtered out; finished in 7.20s

        finished in 7.248 seconds
Build completed successfully in 0:00:08
```

After:
```
thread 'main' panicked at 'Invalid test suite filter "/home/jnelson/rust-lang/rust/src/test/rustdoc-ui/intra-doc/feature-gate-intra-doc-pointers.r": file or directory does not exist', src/bootstrap/util.rs:311:
note: run with `RUST_BACKTRACE=1` environment variable to display a backtrace
Build completed unsuccessfully in 0:00:08
```