Auto merge of #92740 - cuviper:update-rayons, r=Mark-Simulacrum

Auto merge of #92740 - cuviper:update-rayons, r=Mark-Simulacrum

Update rayon and rustc-rayon

This updates rayon for various tools and rustc-rayon for the compiler's parallel mode.

- rayon v1.3.1 -> v1.5.1
- rayon-core v1.7.1 -> v1.9.1
- rustc-rayon v0.3.1 -> v0.3.2
- rustc-rayon-core v0.3.1 -> v0.3.2

... and indirectly, this updates all of crossbeam-* to their latest versions.

Fixes #92677 by removing crossbeam-queue, but there's still a lingering question about how tidy discovers "runtime" dependencies. None of this is truly in the standard library's dependency tree at all.