Auto merge of #53383 - nnethercote:HybridIdxSetBuf, r=nikomatsakis

Auto merge of #53383 - nnethercote:HybridIdxSetBuf, r=nikomatsakis

Speed up NLL with HybridIdxSetBuf.

It's a sparse-when-small but dense-when-large index set that is very
efficient for sets that (a) have few elements, (b) have large
universe_size values, and (c) are cleared frequently. Which makes it
perfect for the `gen_set` and `kill_set` sets used by the new borrow
checker.

This patch reduces `tuple-stress`'s NLL-check time by 40%, and up to 12%
for several other benchmarks. And it halves the max-rss for `keccak`,
and has smaller wins for `inflate` and `clap-rs`.